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On one hand he obeys the fuck-buddy 'rules' with regard to intimacy (no romantic texts, sometimes will go for days without contact, says I can have sex with other people, etc) yet on the other hand he does the following: holds my hand - fingers entwined (always initiated by him), chivalrous acts like holding doors open, paying for all drinks and meals, paying me compliments, helping me with things, regular texts.
I'm confused by these mixed-signals, and - I confess - I'm new to this FB lark. I don't think he is giving you mixed messages at all. I got myself very badly hurt by a fb type relationship. If you really like them it's very hard not to see it for more than it is, even if that's what you think you want. If so, I would lay my cars on the table with him and tell him what you have told us on here. He was a lot younger than me in life as well as age (he was 22 and into clubbing and parties, I was 29 and just divorced, one dc).